The 3L’s Podcast
Welcome to The 3L’s Podcast, a raw, unfiltered, and hilarious take on marriage, relationships, parenting, money, and everything in between.
We’re a husband-and-wife duo, married nearly 15 years with four kids and more stories than we can count. Each week, we dive into the highs and lows of building a life together, from dating and raising children to navigating finances, intimacy, and family drama.
We’ll also break down the money moves and mindset shifts that help couples build wealth and create a legacy for their families. Because love is great, but generational impact? That’s the real goal.
Expect real talk, laughter, a little bit of raunchiness (because marriage isn’t always PG), and lessons we’ve learned along the way. Whether you’re dating, newly married, knee-deep in parenting, or just curious how couples make it work, this is the podcast for you.
🎙️ New episodes every Friday.
Subscribe and join us as we share the journey of building love, money, and legacy.
Episodes
Mar 18, 2022
Mar 18, 2022
38 min
Everyone has a different standard and rule for what they want from their relationship. But what if the one you are dating said that he doesn’t want to spend money on your dates because you have the rule to wait and have sex until marriage?
In this episode, Eman and Mimi talk about relationships specifically dating. They share their different views on people's standards, rules, and regulations in terms of money and dating, the pressures of social media, and the importance of values and core beliefs in choosing a partner.
Highlights
How does “Go Dutch” works in dating
What are the dating standards, rules, and regulations
The reason why sex shouldn't be viewed as a currency
Why a relationship should involve give and take
How social media brings pressure to dating
What is the biggest reason for divorce
The importance of values in a relationship
Links
Follow Eman and Mimi on social media:
Emmanuel Asuquo
Instagram: @theemaneffectuk
Youtube: The Eman Effect
Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com
Mariam Asuquo
Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes
Mar 7, 2022
Mar 7, 2022
34 min
What makes a healthy relationship? It doesn't happen overnight. You need to commit, communicate, show respect, understand, and support each other. And sometimes you have to take the backseat in order to prioritize him/her to make the relationship stronger.
In this episode, Eman and Mimi share how their friendship developed into a romantic relationship and how they built a family together. They talk about Mimi’s career change and how they communicate, respect, understand and support each other. The couple also touched on the topic of people's preferences in choosing a partner and social media content.
Highlights
The importance of communication in any relationship
What is Mimi’s biggest motivator in her decision to switch career
Eman and Mimi’s version of the Netflix series “Love is Blind”
Learn to respect the different races and preferences of people; and
Build a genuine relationship with people
Links
Follow Eman and Mimi on social media:
Emmanuel Asuquo
Instagram: @theemaneffectuk
Tiktok: @theemaneffectuk
Youtube: The Eman Effect
Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com
Mariam Asuquo
Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes
Mar 7, 2022
Mar 7, 2022
29 min
What if the Tinder match you have been dating for months turns out to be a fraud? And he's using your money to date other women and live a luxurious life? You need to be careful and protect yourself and your money from this kind of people.
In this episode of the Eman Effect Podcast, Eman and Mimi talk about the “The Tinder Swindler” documentary on Netflix. They discuss how this guy scammed women to live a life of luxury and how you can protect yourself and your money when dealing with such people. They also talk about people's spending habits, money relationships, mindsets, and wealth, and provide tips on how to improve them.
Highlights
How Tinder Swindler used women to live a luxurious life
Why people are drawn to lavish lifestyles
The Instagram aesthetic life
Learn how to protect yourself and your money; and
Discover the best way to help someone
Links
Follow Eman and Mimi on social media:
Emmanuel Asuquo
Instagram: @theemaneffectuk
Tiktok: @theemaneffectuk
Youtube: The Eman Effect
Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com
Mariam Asuquo
Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes